StarzAbove

It’s NOT a Bucket List – I concur with other’s that the term Bucket List is sort of depressing.
It’s a LIFE LIST.
It’s creating the life you want to live.

“If you don’t know where you are going, any road will take you there.”
~ George Harrison

I hand wrote it in my new moleskine that my daughter-in-college’s friend gave me for Christmas.

It feels good.

Maybe I will post some or all of it – somewhere online – someday …

Right now? I just feel like taking a walk, working my way up to running.

Isn’t that odd?

Isn’t that a simple enough thing?

Well, I plan to make that my goal for the upcoming new year. I have so many things I want to do – NEED to do.  I have some goals and dreams. Things I want to teach my children, places I want to take my children, and experiences I want to get my children.

I am not sure which order of effect these things have, but here’s a list of things that I think I need to focus on in order to get where I want to go. 

Sleep

Exercise

Diet

Organization

Focus

Priority

I am going to ponder this list and then talk about each of the items more in the coming days. I do have a few more days before the end of 2011.

I am a mess. I held it somewhat together through the holidays. But now I am falling apart. I feel so alone at a time when I should feel surrounded. I am so blessed and have so much to be thankful for – so I don’t mean to sound ungrateful, because I am not.

It just hurts. So. Bad.

I need someone to talk to that will be straight with me. Someone that will give me advice for me and not them. Someone who will lift me up when I need it and yet still that will kick me in the arse when I need it.

I used to have someone like that – but I can’t find them. 

For now I will just keep hiding under the covers with a numb bum.

And I am ever so tired of all of the tears.

I have so much to be thankful for, really I do.

And here we are heading into a beautiful holiday – and I am so unprepared, so not even headed in the vague direction of being ready.

I’m just so overwhelmed.

I’m done!!!!!!!
The semester is 100% DONE!!!

Now to read, write, knit, watch, relax, and start the Christmas season for real!

Well, here I am on the last day of November. This is my 17th post for the month. I fell short of posting every day, but I posted more this month than in the past 12 months combined. This is good. The point was to post more, I did. Now to focus on keeping it up and keeping up the quality of the posts.

Today feels like the last day of the month before the beginning of another month. I feel like I am caught in between. Stuck in some crevice of life. In between a rock and a hard place. Trying to find my way to the next horizon.

I submitted some of my photos for the school faculty/student holiday art show today. It will raise money for the art club, so that is all good. But I had a really hard time with it. Choosing how big to blow up my prints, or not. Deciding on a monetary price for the creativity that comes out of my heart. I really struggled. I almost didn’t follow through. Seeing my photos blown up into prints makes me feel really good. Putting my art out there with everyone else’s is somewhat tortuous. I actually found myself mentioning to several people close to me today that maybe I am not conceited or confident enough to be a real artist. If so, what the hell am I doing as a Fine Arts major?!?! I am a creative, or so I think, and people tell me. But I also know I am very practical, down-to-earth and an entrepreneur. I’ve worked primarily for myself almost all of my life. I’ve decided to do what I love and figure out how to ‘monetize that $#!+. But today, I find myself questioning all of it. I’m trying to hard to break away from deciding what I do based on other people that I don’t know (yet) – the infamous ‘they’. I’m trying really hard not to sell out my dreams and just be practical. There is an element of goodness to practicality – a necessary thing – but it doesn’t drive us. Life is too short. Stress is poison – it kills. I’m also trying to not live my life based on comparing myself to anyone – except in a healthy, observational way – a way that I can learn from and grown from as I move forward. But today is very difficult for me for some reason. Seeing all of that art, and mine amongst it, made me feel a bit ill. Should it make me feel more excited? Or are these huge butterflies a good sign? A sign that I’m stretching myself, pushing my limits, growing to new heights? I guess time will tell. I have hopes and dreams and some of them feel like they’ve just been yanked out of my insides and thrown out on a chopping block for everyone to see and dissect.

In school news, I have just 2 exams, 2 papers and some loose ends in photography I class to tie up and I’m done with this semester. Bring on December, bring on a month of more free time, bring it all on.

I am thankful for many usual things this year: my family, home(s), animals, food, etc. But I am also thankful for having a phone again. Silly, I know, but this is the 21st century and I am a bit of a geek!

We enjoyed a very, nice and quiet Thanksgiving at our new 2nd home yesterday, with just the immediate family. It was a bit strange, not being surrounded by chaos and many relatives/friends, but it was a nice and needed, easygoing day. Christmas will return to the normally scheduled chaosity (new word?) and we will look forward to it, but we are in a place where we needed the calm, the ‘just us’ time and it was very nice.

I’m not doing so well on the NaBloPoMo, insofar as posting every day of the month. But I have posted far more this month than I have in the past year or two – so it’s a step, towards more regular posting.

And now it’s time for cramming – the end of my first semester back at college has come, and I have 4 major papers and 2 major exams left to do, along with printing photographs for the department Holiday Art Sale, and a final critique/review – and then I am done! I am SO looking forward to a month off, to catch my breath, before the next semester starts and I add a class or two more to my load. Crazy, I know. But it is exciting, really. And I have to keep busy, so I don’t sit here and worry myself crazy about waiting to hear about my acceptance to the University.

Well, enough procrastination for now. Bring on the essay writing, bring on the leftovers and bring on the official beginning of the Christmas 2011 Season!!!

The new Epiphanie Bag catalog is out – WOWZA!
http://issuu.com/epiphanie/docs/epiphanie_catalog_fall_2011
My new fave: Ginger in brown!

11/16/2011 yarn pet of the day, a photo by starzabove on Flickr.

11/16/2011 yarn pet of the day

Pretty to look at, and sitting on top of the novel we read for English.
The novel I’m struggling to write a paper on at this very moment.
It is a very good book, though: Eli the Good

ummm… okay … right…. oy vey!
Read NPR’s article on the topic.